THE LATEST FROM FRAN BERGER
Friendships
The First 10 Minutes, Why They’re So Important
I’m reminded regularly of one of my basic truths. A person will tell you who they are within the first 10 minutes of meeting them. It’s funny but we all do the same thing when we meet someone for the first...
Read MoreHow Many Full Moons Do We Have Left?
It’s funny. We all find ourselves getting cranky over something that someone else has said or done to us that we perceive as mean. I know for a fact that I’m guilty of that. I’ve always said that I may...
Read MorePushing Through the ‘Fear of Failure’
Thrilled to be asked by LivingBetter50 to kick off their series on Extraordinary Women, on February 10. These interviews came at a great time for me – during the launch of my brand expansion! The interviews themselves: a truly humbling experience. Just to...
Read MoreMirror, Mirror on the Wall
There are days when we all hate the mirror. I agree that whoever said that the mirror doesn’t lie was actually telling the truth. I’ll look in the mirror and think I’m either “fat” or my skin doesn’t look good...
Read MoreRelationships and Love: The Only Constant in Life is Change
For this Valentine’s Day, I thought it would be appropriate to bring up Heraclitus, the ancient Greek philosopher who said that the only constant in life is change. He was SO right – thank goodness! I have found in my...
Read MoreValentine’s Day for Singles?
Valentine’s Day is less than a week away and when it does come I will have been single for the last three of them. It’s not exactly the most fun day- evening thing to look forward to if you don’t...
Read MoreFran’s Soapbox: There’s Only One Winner
I’m going to step on my soap box now so be warned! When I was growing up, medals, trophies and awards were all things that you worked hard for, practiced hard for. It was still the case when my kids...
Read MoreMy favorite recipe for a Girls Night – YAH!
I’m often asked what my favorite “girls night” recipes are. I like the ones that are good for catching up and remind us of old memories. Especially once the summer and the backyard cookouts are over, I’m also more interested...
Read MoreDate Night Wine from Gruet Winery
I love when I’m asked my wine recommendations because there are so many wonderful options to explore! Date night wines for a romantic dinner at home have been a popular discussion recently, so here are a few of my romantic...
Read MoreTravel Lightly and Deal With The Issue Now
A favorite saying of mine comes from Confucius: “Wherever you go, there you are.” And I find that this philosophy never fails to bring out deeper meaning to just about every situation. I was having dinner with one...
Read MoreI’m a Really Nice Person, but Kindness is not a Weakness
People tell me that I’m really nice. Friends say that I’m very supportive and that they call me for opinions because they know I’ll be honest with them. They know that I will always tell them what I believe but that...
Read MoreDon't Cry Wolf, Be Honest With Yourself
Threats only work the first time – Never Cry Wolf Always do what you say you will do. If you’re not sure you can, then just don’t say anything. How many times have we seen people, either with their kids...
Read MoreSex
I’m just going to say it… Sex makes women STUPID! I’ve been saying this for ages and eventually all my girlfriends agree with me. You have to understand, I’m all for having sex, making love, having a deep connection with...
Read MoreKid's Choices
I have never understood parents who don’t give their children rules and boundaries in their lives; it always ends with kids who grow into adults who think they can do anything they want with no consequences. It’s not how the world...
Read MoreMemories Can Take Your Breath Away
Memories are funny things. There are those that make us happy (a special event) or sad (a loved one dying) but sometimes there are memories that we react to differently depending upon what else is going on. You know the...
Read MoreToo Many Steps?
One thing I know when I’m looking for something new to cook is that it has to be simple. I don’t mean three ingredients and one pot (although if you have a recipe like that and it tastes great –...
Read MoreA Memorable Night
On December 16th, I was honored to be able to co-host an amazing holiday party at The Farm of Beverly Hills. The invitation was sent out by Lisa DeTanna of Raymond James’ Global Wealth Group. Lisa and I were joined...
Read More3 Glasses You Need in Your Bar
There are only three types of glasses that you absolutely need in your bar at home: The old-fashioned short, squatty, wide base glass, that typically holds about 6-10 ounce drinks. Then there’s the highball glass (often referred to as a...
Read MoreThe Power to Make You Happy
The happiness that we can bring to ourselves. I’ve always found it interesting when someone says to me, “that person made me so unhappy”. What I’ve found in my life and tried to instill in my sons’ is that their...
Read MoreShorts and Flip Flops
I live in Los Angeles, the land of perpetual sunshine and heat. You know, the place where everyone is in t-shirts at the Rose Bowl on New Year’s Day and everyone back east watching the game is angry because they’re...
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